By Cos-lewisa O.
So many of us spend tons and tons of time, money, data watching our favorite celebrities with our mobile phones, laptops, television etc and most often, question ourselves on when we are finally going to be like them.
We ask ourselves if anyone is ever going to spend their money and time watching, smiling and laughing at us, just the same way we feel when we watch our celebrities.
In most cases, we feel sad that the time is not just coming and sometimes we end up shedding tears, you lose confidence in yourself, you feel you are not good enough, and that your existence is not needed.
It becomes worse if you are not doing well in your academics, business/workplace or if your family is broken, at that point the doubt in yourself increases at a high rate but one thing is certain, there is time for everything. Those you spend time watching happen to be their time and someday, somehow, your own time will come, so don’t lose focus because those celebrities are in your life to motivate you to keep striving in order to achieve your dreams.
If you keep failing and have doubt in yourself, give yourself a pause and then reflect hard on yourself, sit down and tell yourself that if those celebrities you look up to today can go that far, *I too can do it.* it definitely won’t be an easy thing to do, but it is necessary.
With all of these positivity inside of you, you go hard on whatever it is that keeps making you doubt yourself, tell it that you will succeed and not fail again because your celebrities did not fail and even when they failed they got back on their feet.
Note that along the way you may lose this positive energy again, you don’t have to worry all you need do is go back and talk to yourself.
